Q&A with Rony Tennenbaum
Q: Who proposes to whom?
A: The answers are plentiful here, simply because the dynamics of each relationship is different. I find there are couples that choose to have the discussion on whether or not they would like to get engaged and then married, in which case the proposal is less of an issue than the purchasing of the rings. However, when one partner decides on taking that step of commitment and would like to surprise their significant other with a proposal of matrimony, there is never a right or wrong answer as to who decides to go first and propose. Unlike heterosexual couples where the norm is to have the guy woo the girl and ask for her hand, when it comes to a same sex couple, I feel both are in a position to do the proposing.